Shani's Story
No one had ever taught me
how to do relationships
healthily.
After my devastating breakup in 2013. I was so frustrated and confused about what I needed to do differently to be snatched up by “the one.” I didn’t know how to establish healthy boundaries. I wasn’t sure how to create a relationship with a man without sex being our primary source of entertainment.
Through this journey, I realized that I needed to evolve first. As I blossomed, my perspective changed, and so did my dating experience.
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I began to ask the right questions.
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I knew how to evoke his desire to pursue me.
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I was able to create a healthy space of sensuality without foregoing my sexuality.
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I was confident, and I knew my values.
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I learned how to walk away gracefully without becoming bruised and broken.
The Power of 'P' Pillars
The Awakening
The awakening of the power of the “P” calls for higher biblical consciousness and deeper mental awareness. It’s an opportunity to experience the world from a godly prescription.
Romans 12:2 (NLT)
Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing your thinking. Then, you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good, pleasing, and perfect.
Our goal, though not always easy but worthwhile, is to turn our eyes and ears toward biblical principles when making decisions about life and love. It‘s a bold move to make when culture goes against the very nature and principles of the bible. We are here to prove otherwise, and I challenge you to use scripture as your guide as you:
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Nurture the perception of self,
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Value the power of prayer
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Understand your ordained purpose
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Embrace your divine right to be pursued
Perception of Self:
Self-Awareness Unlocks Self-Growth
2 Corinthians 5:17
The key to unlocking the journey to finding love is discovering yourself through personal growth. This is a process of developing new skills, attitudes, actions, or reactions that can positively impact your life and increase your overall well-being.
Prayer:
Your North Star
Mark 11:24
Deepening your prayer life gives you space for hope, love, and fortitude during challenging times. Your spiritual compass will ground you when you are confused and help you in your decision-making process when the world/flesh tells you one way to go, but you know deep inside that God desires you to make another decision. As a Christian, the Bible is your GPS, redirecting you when you veer off and guiding you to your north star (purpose).
Purpose in Dating:
The Eco-System of Life
Jeremiah 29:11
Do you believe you were created and designed for a specific purpose? God made you in his image and delicately crafted you in your mother’s womb so you may use your unique gifts to bring his people back to him. Your purpose is divinely connected to the ecosystem of destiny.
Pursuit:
Your Milk & Honey
Numbers 14:8
You are God’s milk and honey; he has set you apart from the rest and wants you to live in abundance and have a life of delight, sweetness, and pleasure. The art of biblical pursuit should feel loving, peaceful, and joyful.
