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Solo for Thanksgiving? How to Make This Holiday Your Most Empowering Yet!
Thanksgiving is often painted as a holiday for togetherness, family, and big dinners around a bustling table. But what happens if you’re...
Shani L. Farmer
Nov 24, 2024
Winter Arc-Glow Up Dating Edition
Embracing Your Winter Arc: Gratitude in Dating Hey ladies! Have y’all heard about this “Winter Arc” thing taking over the internet? I...
Shani L. Farmer
Nov 1, 2024
Healing Through Honest Conversations w/ Denise Marcelle
🎥 Episode 2 | Shani and Denise discuss why intimacy beyond the physical is key to building deeper, stronger bonds with your partner
Shani L. Farmer
Oct 31, 2024
Hubby Didn't Get Any This Weekend, & Here Is How I Feel About It.
Let me tell y'all a quick story. My husband and I spent the weekend at this gorgeous spa resort in the Cotswolds with some friends. We...
Shani L. Farmer
Oct 21, 2024
"Level Up Your Love Life: 90 Days to Attract the One in 2024"
In my last blog post, we talked about how my fertility journey mirrors your search for “the one.” As I reflected more on this, something...
Shani L. Farmer
Oct 13, 2024
From IVF to Love: How My Fertility Journey Relates to Your Search for 'The One
Alright, sis, let me break this down for you and bring you into my story. I know you’re thinking, “Shani, what does your baby journey...
Shani L. Farmer
Oct 1, 2024
"I'm two different people...but I'm not trying to be"- Sex and Relationships
🎥 Episode 1 | Shani and Alexis discuss how early exposure to sex and pornography at a young age impacted their perception of love.
Shani L. Farmer
Sep 24, 2024
Sex & Soul-Ties
"Your next level is who you are willing to become in this season" (coachkelly) When you picture what your "forever" relationship will...
Shani L. Farmer
Oct 12, 2023
I Abused Myself...
I didn't know it was abuse. I would sit on my couch with this dark spirit that rested inside of me saying "No man finds me worthy enough...
Shani L. Farmer
Oct 1, 2023
Is the Strong Black Woman Archetype Killing us?
How many times have you heard a black woman say, "I don't need a man. I can do bad all by myself."
Shani L. Farmer
May 2, 2023
I've Missed You! Healing Together
We have so much to talk about... "It's not you, it's me" Isn't that one of the most irritating things that someone could say? Like, what...
Shani L. Farmer
May 2, 2023
Your Lack of Financial Commitment is Killing You - The Journey to Financial Freedom
Are you ready for the second personal story? It was January 2016 and Ben and I were visiting my parents in Florida. We had been dating...
Shani L. Farmer
Mar 26, 2023
Your Lack of Fitness is Killing You
Let me tell you a personal story... 6 months prior to my wedding, I decided I wanted to get serious about my fitness. I hired a fitness...
Shani L. Farmer
Mar 20, 2023
This Woman wasn't always this happy...
While social is down a bit, let's get to know one another a little better. When I close my eyes, I can remember clearly the agony that...
Shani L. Farmer
Mar 2, 2023
Elevating in this season
Give me a "Yes Sis" If Cuffing Season is cancelled for you this year. If you are a woman who is actively taking on the mindset and...
Shani L. Farmer
Nov 8, 2022
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